Short Chapter!

I've decided I want to break up with Darin. Here's what happened:

He was being super possessive at this party on Saturday... Like, I left the basement to go get a sandwich out of my car and I told him I was going outside to eat and he said, "Kk, that's cool." But then one of my guy friends went outside with me to get something out of his truck, and Darin comes up from the basement after a few minutes and was looking out the window and out the door, looking around for me, then comes out and walks over to my car and asks me what I'm doing(this is a minute after he texted me saying "What are you doing?"). He walks up and asks that same question, and I say "Uhh just eating my sandwich," so he starts talking to my guy friend, Will, the guy who walked outside with me. Then Darin goes back inside and I walk up to the porch and sit on the swing with my buddy Jon and his friend Noah. Will walks up and they started talking about how Darin had been acting funny and searching around for me. Kind of strange and obsessive behavior.

So fast forward one hour, I've got the munchies, so I ask Will if he'll drive over to Harris Teeter to buy food. He says yeah, so I tell Darin "Hey I'm gonna go get food with Will, be back in a bit," (btw, Will and I go to school together so we know each other pretty well. We leave to get food and a few minutes later Darin texts me and asks me where I am. I told him that we went to Burger King because Will wanted that food instead of Harris Teeter, and so we were then sitting in the parking lot eating. Darin then calls and says "Where are you? What are you doing?" and I told him the same thing again. Darin then responds with "Kk, well come back soon," and I say yeah sure and hang up. Then when I get back he texts me:

"Where are you?"

"Upstairs."

"Why don't you come downstairs?"

"I'm hanging with Jon, Will, and Noah."

"So come down here."

"I'm hanging with them..."

"So you can't come down here"

I didn't respond to him because he was pissing me off, but eventually we all went downstairs. Darin started being really obnoxious... Like... Smacking my ass and saying really crude things... which was weird because it was a chill party, not a crazy one, ya know? He was being really belligerent and loud and sexually inappropriate for that specific crowd. After 20 minutes he demands to leave (this is around 230) but I had already pledged to a game of beer pong so I said "No, lemme finish this game," and he says "I fucking hate beer pong," and walks off. I'm just like kk whatever dude... So I finish the game and he comes back and says "Let's go." I say sure bud, and we left. As I followed him back to his place I considered calling Marena but my phone had died and it was 3 AM. I was so mad at how dismissive he was being that I pretended to pass out when we got there so I wouldn't have to be affectionate with him.

I woke up Sunday morning around 12, we got breakfast, wasted time, and then I decided to show him this funny website, and it ended up sparking a conversation about chatroulette. We went onto chatroulette and I started talking to some dude. Darin looked a little bored, so I asked him if he wanted me to get off, and he said "No, it's fine." So ya know, whatever, that process repeats for about 6 minute... I asked him 3 times if he wanted me to get off and he continually said no. He got up after a couple more minutes and said "I'm gonna read," so he grabbed a book and then sat back down in the room. I asked him again, 2 more times, if he wanted me to get off and he said "No, it's cool baby," so I didn't. Then he slammed his book, stood up, and said "This is retarded," and stormed out of the room. I got up, walked over to him and said,

"Look, if you've got a problem with what I'm doing then tell me straight up and stop bullshitting," and he responded with some stupid excuse so I said, "No, that's not a reason, you need to be honest with me when something bothers you or else I won't know."

And that's the end... We had a little fight but that's not important.

I'm done with him. The question is when to dump him. Should I do it this weekend... Or maybe in a month when I can blame it on the distance (he leaves for Quantico on Tuesday, the 30th)? I'm thinking just chill for a bit then call it off so that he doesn't flip a shit and get mad because I'm breaking up based on personal reasons... Rather than the situation of the relationship. And honestly I'm not in a hurry to date someone else so I can afford to just chill and let him off easy. However, I most likely will see him tonight because he wants to hang out before he leaves tomorrow. So I could easily do it tonight and be done with it all... And just bullshit him by saying it just hit me that I'm getting back into a long-distance relationship and I really don't want to do that all over again.